Don't feel sorry. I do feel sorry that this whole process is difficult to you, it means I have to find ways to simplify it further.
We're making a great deal of progress. It looks like you solved the Facebook part : everything now compiles correctly. The error comes at the linking phase. And the GAdXXX missing symbols here don't come from the Facebook SDK but from the Google Ads one.
It means your project also relies on the Google Ads SDK (in addition to the Facebook one), so just pick the appropriate Google SDK and do the same thing with it that you did for Facebook.
*edit* in case you wonder how I know that these symbols are from the Google SDK, the troubleshooting section in the documentation (which I invite you to read) explains what to do in case of "undefined symbols" errors. Basically, you take each symbol name one after the other and you paste them in your favorite web search engine. This promptly tells you where they come from, be it from an Apple framework or to which third-party SDK they belong.